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In this bonus episode of Manners and Other Matters, Louise Percy offers insightful advice to parents preparing their little ones for the significant milestone of starting school for the first time. With a focus on fostering confidence, kindness, and respect, Louise shares practical tips and personal anecdotes to guide parents through this transitional journey
The Emotional Milestone of Starting School
Louise reflects on her personal and family experiences, highlighting how this big step impacts not just the child but the entire family. She advises parents to focus on preparing their child to confidently embrace this new chapter.
First Impressions Count
Encourage your child to greet teachers and classmates with a confident, “Hi, my name is… What’s your name?”
Role-playing scenarios at home can help children navigate their first interactions at school.
The Power of Polite Words
The magic words “please,” “thank you,” and “excuse me” are essential for fostering positive interactions.
Remind children to use these words in everyday situations, setting the tone for their classroom behaviour.
Manners Matter Box
Louise introduces the idea of a “Manners Matter Box” as a fun and engaging way to reinforce good behavior at home. This activity can encourage children to recognize and celebrate acts of kindness and good manners.
Teaching Sharing and Turn-Taking
Board games and other hands-on activities can help children practice sharing and taking turns.
Discuss the concept of sharing in a way that assures children they don’t have to give up items permanently.
Respecting Authority and Cultural Norms
Teach children to address teachers respectfully (e.g., “Yes, Mrs. Smith”) and avoid interrupting when others are speaking.
Discuss the importance of listening attentively and following instructions.
Handling Disagreements Gracefully
Equip children with calming phrases like “Let’s take turns” or “It’s your turn now.”
Share examples of resolving conflicts kindly to instill these behaviors early.
Inclusivity and Friendship
Encourage children to approach peers who are alone and invite them to join in.
Role-playing inclusive behaviors can help children build confidence in making new friends.
Classroom Etiquette
Teach children to keep their spaces tidy, wait their turn to speak, and respect classroom rules.
Practicing tidying up at home prepares children for shared responsibilities in the classroom.
Expressing Gratitude
Encourage children to thank teachers and classmates for their efforts and kindness.
Examples like “Thank you, I enjoyed working with you” can reinforce a culture of appreciation.
Louise’s Top Tip
Remember the important saying that “All people are the same, it is their habits which are different”. (Confucius)
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