Episode 25: Wedding Etiquette Unveiled: A Journey From the 80s to Now

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Show Notes

Join Louise as she takes you on a journey through the evolution of bridal etiquette, exploring how weddings have transformed from the opulent ceremonies of the 1980s to the personalized, intimate affairs of today. With a focus on tradition, culture, and personal expression, this episode offers valuable insights into the changing landscape of wedding etiquette and provides thoughtful reflections on what it means to tie the knot in the modern era.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Personal Wedding Anecdotes: Louise shares her personal experience from her own wedding in the 1980s, characterized by formality and grandeur, and contrasts it with the more relaxed and personalized wedding of her stepson Nick and his fiancée Emily, set in a historic vineyard in Western Australia.
• The Shift in Wedding Etiquette Over Decades: Explore the significant shifts in wedding traditions, from the rigid formalities of the past to the modern trend of blending old and new elements, reflecting the couple’s unique style and values.
• The Role of the Bridal Party: Discusses the evolving roles and responsibilities of bridal attendants, including the rise of co-ed bridal parties and the importance of balancing expectations with financial realities.
• Guest Lists and Invitations: Louise delves into the complexities of managing guest lists, the etiquette of sending out invitations, and the importance of clear communication, especially when dealing with potential conflicts, such as adult-only events.
• Dress Codes and Bridal Attire: A look at how bridal attire has changed over the years, including the tradition of wearing white, the significance of veils, and the evolving customs around bridal accessories.
• The Modern Bride’s Considerations: Louise emphasizes the importance of consideration, kindness, and empathy when planning a wedding, ensuring that the day reflects the couple’s values while being mindful of their guests’ needs and expectations.

Why You Should Listen: Whether you’re planning your own wedding, attending one, or simply fascinated by the changing norms of wedding etiquette, this episode offers a wealth of knowledge and practical tips to help you navigate the world of weddings with grace and elegance.

Louise’s Top Tip

Weddings and their preparations should be a joyful time. Whether you are family members, friends or planners, consideration and respect for everyone’s opinion will assist with discussion and decisions.